So, what is it?
Basically, it’s when in a committed relationship one person has consensual sexual encounters with others outside of this connection. In other words - consensual non monogamy.
Traditionally explored with one partner (the cuck) watching and enjoying their partner have sex with another person.
Anybody from any background may wish to explore this for lots of reasons.. Including:
- Dominance and submission
- Voyeurism
- Fantasies
Firstly, as with all my blogs, this is not for everyone. We are all unique with our own fantasies, kinks and fetishes.
Honesty and open communication are a must, talk openly with your partner about likes, wants, needs, worries, fears and boundaries.
Trust and emotional support/well-being are a necessity.
Conversations using online platforms, group chats and gatherings are a great way of opening up and eventually meeting a ‘bull’ (the person who participates in cuckolding)
Go slow, there is no rush. Continue being open and honest in your conversations and discuss comfort levels for ALL involved.
Agree on boundaries and mutual emotional well-being and support, discuss any issues that may arise (such as jealousy, motives and self esteem. This will help enable a trusting and supportive experience)
Checking in regularly with participants and aftercare IS important, talk about feelings after every encounter, discuss the pleasure problems and experience.
Most of all, be kind gentle and tender to everyone and reflect.
Aftercare Is Essential for better mental health and well-being, helping with significant, sincere connections between all involved.
If there are any challenges, please seek support and advice from a therapist or counsellor.
Happy Days Ahead, Pleasure Seekers.
FantasyMinx♥️
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