Hello you beautiful people and welcome back!
A treat for the penis today.. Fellatio, or more commonly know as a blow job (Stimulating the
penis, scrotum and perineum) (the area between the anus and testicles) with the mouth, tongue and lips.
So (as if you didn’t know) communication and consent are so important, if you say no, it means no. Speaking honestly and openly about what we are comfortable with has been proven to build trust, respect and more fulfilling sexual experiences.
Protection from STIs like condoms and dental dams are available from reputable adult shops, as well as your local sexual wellbeing clinics.
Hygiene - we all have a distinct scent often described as musky or acidic.. It’s normal. However, if there is an unusual stronger smell then it may be sweat or lack of ventilation. This can be easily fixed with some warm water and a towel.
If the smell is yeasty or stronger than noticed before with itching, discharge or discomfort, please seek medical advice.
Teeth? Do I use them for oral sex? Easy answer is: only if it’s consensual- not everyone likes the feeling of teeth whilst receiving a blowjob, so ask first!
Same with hair pulling, some love it, some don’t.. agree on boundaries.
So, how do we know the right position for the best experience? trial and error to be honest, see what suits, a cushion to kneel on may be handy.
Lying or sitting with legs apart by the receiver, whilst the giver kneels between their legs.
69 is a great way for participants to receive pleasure at the same time.
Lazy 69 involves both participants lying down for a chilled, longer session. This is fab for those with less mobility and older people.
The giver can control the amount of penis they take in the mouth by firmly and gently holding the shaft to prevent gagging (although the gag reflex may be enjoyed by some)
Experiment and see what suits you best. Oral sex can be very intimate and
enthusiastic participation will help ensure it’s not good but great for all involved!
Start slow.. enjoy the whole body from the neck, ears, stomach, thighs to the feet! Brush over the penis and testicles lightly and when ready start to stroke, lick and kiss the penis and testicles. Use spit and/or lube, a wet warm BJ can help prevent pulling the skin the wrong way.
The head or glans is chock a block full of nerve endings, so lick and kiss this area and the frenulum (the little ridge of skin underside of the head)
Use your tongue along the shaft and hand too. When you have matching rhythm and pressure with the mouth and hand, check in with the receiver with eye contact - a little moan and compliments.
It can be very empowering to see partner(s) enjoying the enthusiasm and passion and no doubt they will be moaning at this point.. in a good way!
Spit or swallow? A personal choice!
Swallow if you want to..
Spit into a tissue if you want to..
Let the spunk explode over your bodies if you want to!
There’s no right or wrong answer, just enjoy the moment together.
Clean up and cuddle.
Fun fact - spunk has calcium and zinc in it. Both proven to help prevent tooth decay!
Keep It Real, Pleasure Seekers.
FantasyMinx♥️
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