Whether it’s serious soft rock, smooth R&B or classy classical.. set the scene and create the
Ambience.
Choose your lighting
Ignite a candle or two
Satin sheets, crispy cotton or pvc on the bed, whatever your preference
A little sexy fragrance can always enhance the mood.. sandalwood, vanilla, jasmine, smells of citrus and lavender (known as the herb of love) (read the label please as some essential oils are not suitable to apply straight onto skin and may be flammable on stain fabrics)
Have your fave toy(s) lube and towel handy
And now.. the music!
Soft Rock - Dr Hook, Fleetwood Mac, Lana Del Rey, Harry Styles to name but a few.
Soft rock was born in the late 60s-early 70s, after Hard Rock had become popular. Often listened to by many as the lyrics are engaging and pleasant which can create a warm feeling which in turn enhances our emotions.
R&B - Alicia Keys, Barry White, The Weeknd, Beyonce This is sometimes referred to as soul music and began to develop after World War 2 within the African-American communities.
R&B lyrically talks about freedom triumphs joy and pain desires and relationships and can
create a very passionate and sensual scene
Classical - Beethoven, Bach, Elgar Andre, Bocelli and Andre Riley.
This genre of music has been around hundreds of years, going as far back as the 9th century!
The calming effect of listening to classical music is well known to decrease our heart rate, reduces stress and encourages relaxation.. It can also help set a more romantic scene.
(Although a good friend once told me that they had ‘THE BEST SEX EVER’ listening to O Furtuna by Carmina Burana. Look it up! It was a classical piece best known for a tv advert in the 70s for aftershave lotion)
Natural Soundscape - listening to sounds of nature, from whale songs, rainfall, birdsong and ocean waves. A scientific study in 2017 found that when listening to these types of sound, our bodies naturally set free our endorphins (a chemical in our brain that helps us deal with stress and anxiety) as well as proven to boost our mental health and wellbeing, bonding with fellow humans!
There is music out there for us all, but this is a snippet to get us started.
Remember, masturbating is natural, guilt free, empowering and costs nothing.
Release those happy hormones, Pleasure Seekers♥️
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