Let's Talk: Pegging

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(Nothing to do with hanging the washing out to dry!)

Pegging is penetrative sex using a strap on dildo.


There are plenty of harnesses, dildos and strapless dildos out there. Strapless dildos are a

great idea to use for those with less mobility. Double strap ons can penetrate the pegger (wearer of the strap on) and the pegee is the person being penetrated.


But I need to slow down and start gently.. Now, pegging is not for everyone, it is for all

genders though! and it has skyrocketed in popularity in recent years with sales of

strap ons flying off the shelves of stockists.


If you’ve read this far then it may be that the thought of pegging does appeal to you, and if that’s

the case.. Read on my friend, read on!


Discussing the idea of pegging may be delicate for some, so be open, be honest, don’t jump

straight in. Take your time as there is plenty to think about.


  • Firstly, discuss and agree on boundaries and consent.

  • Be hygiene conscious, short nails cleanliness and a douche are always important when its anal playtime.

  • Lube, lube and more lube is a MUST as the rectum does not self lubricate!

  • Start with relaxing and maybe a finger or small butt plug to begin.. And breathe.

  • Yes, breathe - as each time we breathe out our sphincter relaxes!

  • Breathe together, as it’s a great form of nonverbal communication and also a great way to bond

  • Positions are up to you, missionary with hips raised or doggy style - it’s all about the experience and what suits individuals

  • Laughter and a sense of humour is a must, by the time the prep of putting harnesses on, selecting dildos, etc, you will be laughing. At this point it’s important to mention that most first encounters with pegging start off uncomfortable with a feeling of needing the toilet and wanting to push the dildo out.

  • Any pain or discomfort you are unsure of, stop and seek professional help.

  • Start small, relax and shut out all of those preconceived notions. Pegging often stimulates us emotionally and psychologically as it can give us a whole new view of our ‘roles’ mentally and sexually.


Find out what’s enjoyable (maybe a vibrating dildo and/or increasing length, girth or shape of toys?)


Now you’ve opened the door to new sensations, stretch, lube, laugh and enjoy, Pleasure seekers. ♥️

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